Lieutenant/jg Goeckel was born September 17, 1921 in Royal Oak, Michigan to Carl and Agnes Goeckel. He had three brothers and one sister.
Ernie attended Royal Oak High School and graduated in the class of 1939 with varsity letters in baseball, basketball and football; he was an all-star baseball player. He then attended the University of Michigan and graduated in the class of 1943 with a degree in mechanical engineering.